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 【本報訊】61歲的著名會計師崔志雄,在網上以「300元食飯,沒有身體接觸」為餌,結識多名少女後邀約見面,並在油麻地一單位內,性侵犯4名14、15歲援交少女,之後給予數百至2500元性服務費。後來社工揭發事件,警方拘捕被告時,再揭發被告1年內先後與逾百名少女性交,更暗中拍下光碟。已婚育有5名子女的被告,昨在高院承認7項非禮,肛交及非法與未成年少女性交等罪,被判囚4年8個月。

官指被告「互聯網的狩獵者」

 法官麥明康在判案時形容被告為「互聯網的狩獵者」,利用互聯網結識年輕少女並留言,令少女應邀晚飯而獲取金錢,事實上被告的動機又豈止一餐晚飯般簡單,被告的行為是利用未成熟及愚蠢的少女以滿足個人性慾。

 崔志雄洋名Henry,承認3項非禮、1項與16歲以下少女非法性交、2項肛交及1項企圖肛交罪名。其餘4項非法性交和企圖強迫肛交罪名則紀錄在案,不予起訴。

妙齡姊妹花 充介紹人獲2百元

 案情指出,被告於2008年11月透過一網站,相約16歲的少女A於平安夜晚膳,事後A獲250元報酬。其後A再介紹15歲胞妹B給被告,B與被告晚飯45分鐘後亦獲得300元,席間被告要求B介紹其他少女,介紹費亦有200元,B便替被告在某網站留言「300元食飯,甚麼都不用做,無身體接觸」。結果15歲X回覆,被告於去年1月3日與X午飯時,X被說服跟他到油麻地一單位,脫去衣服只剩下內衣褲,讓被告觀賞約10秒後,被告叫X穿回衣服,然後隔著X的衣服親吻及撫摸約10分鐘,之後給予500元。

 X於去年2月27日及3月間,透過MSN相約被告到單位見面,期間被告給800元予X,叫X脫光衣服讓被告上下其手,之後被告在沒有戴上安全套下,企圖與X肛交,但被X阻止,被告事後亦付1千元予X

 去年1月中,14歲的Y在互聯網討論區瀏覽該則陪吃飯可得300元的留言後約被告晚飯,Y向被告假稱自己16歲,被告游說Y到上述單位後,替Y脫去衣服,撫捏Y的乳房及吻嘴,被告並戴上安全套與Y性交,完事後支付1,500元。此外,15歲女童W亦循網站看見留言聯絡被告,W及後更帶同14歲的同學Z與被告晚飯,事後Z獲200元,而W連同介紹費共得500元。同月14日,W及Z再次相約被告見面,該次3人純粹閒談,事後各獲得1千元報酬。

搵錢買手機 與被告肛交

 由於Z急需金錢,約被告在單位進行親密行為,Z要求被告戴安全套遭拒,被告與Z肛交,Z因感到極度痛楚叫停,事後得到2,500元。同日晚上,Z向男友透露曾與一「老鬼」肛交,Z更說「錢好難搵,我忍得好辛苦,若不是遺失了手機,我一定不會做。」

兩受害少女舉報 學校社工報警

 去年4月23日,Z及W向學校社工披露與被告的關係,社工報警,警方在被告油麻地單位內檢獲針孔攝錄機及106張光碟,內裡拍下被告與逾百名女子性交過程,後來警方又在被告的中區辦公室內搜出大批錄影帶及數十張被告和女子性交的照片。被告在警誡下承認較早前在「愛情派出所」和「情人飯局」的網站認識一批16及17歲女子,並和她們性交,被告指他暗中拍下影碟目的是作為紀念。


 


小小感覺


我不是認為會計師沒有錯, 但我個人對他是同情多於指控.  在一個很大程度上, 他是一個受害者


首先, 我並不是鼓勵嫖妓, 嫖雛妓更是要不得, 但如果雙方已確認彼此的關係--男方是嫖客, 女方是妓女, 雙方傾妥價錢, 以及一切條件後, 理應不會再有什麼性侵犯的指控, 而事實上, 女方一而再, 再而三, 收會計師的錢, 而每次都是按不同收費而給會計師不同程度的服務, 這是不是意味著, 開價的男方, 已表明自己是嫖客, 而收錢的女方, 是否已肯定自己是妓女?  妓女在收肉金之後告嫖客強姦, 豈有此理!


第二, 我認為, 每一個行業, 都有其專業操守, 而保持客人私隱, 是很多專業重要的一環, 例如醫生, 私家征探等, 都不能向任何人透露客人任何資料, 如果, 我們視妓女是一個職業, 一個妓女向外大肆透露嫖客的資料, 豈不是違返操守?


第三, 都是一個操守問題, 任何愉快的交易, 都要求雙方有最高的誠信, 而在上面故事, 是女方虛報年齡, 嚴格地說, 如果指控男方嫖雛妓, 是對他不公平的, 或者, 可以說會計師疏忽, 沒有核實女方的年齡, 但以一個實際情況重新考慮, 會否有一個妓女會以真名接客, 她又會否給你身份證核實年齡呢?  同時, 如果一個嫖客, 老是堅持先看妓女的身分證, 會否令妓女難堪呢?


此外, 縱觀整個故事, 如果說妓女的指控是對, 我只是認為妓女懂得利用自己先天的優勢, 拿著自己的女兒身給人侵犯的狀紙, 號召公眾給她同情, 相反, 在法理上, 會計師又可否設局, 反咬女方勾引他呢?  理論上是可以的, 我記得以前警方都用差不多的方法, 引導上海街樓梯口接客的妓女講出交易的條件, 便理直氣壯地拘捕妓女, 所以, 如果妓女不跟嫖客建立一份互信, 動輒驚動王氣, 難保某日, 妓女反被嫖客指控


最後, 某程度上, 我是贊成在報章不公開妓女的名字, 因為這可給予妓女重生的機會, 但公開男方的名字, 又是否恰當呢?  因為上文已討論過, 會計師和女方只是嫖客和妓女的關係, 在妓女老羞成怒, 反咬會計師之後, 便公開會計師, 這是不是說, 男方是一個罪人, 而女仔係受害者, 公開個男仔名是理所當然呢? 


 


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上星期五下午因要去九龍灣個客度,去完之後是5:45PM ,所以沒回公司直接返屋企,返到屋都未多夠6:30PM. 感覺好正,對於往晚,6:30 PM 我都未從公司走.


昨日下午因去做特區戶照,做完之後4:30PM ,我也沒回公司直接回家, 感覺仲更加正.Haha.


其實我要求也不高, 如果可以每天6:30pm 或之前走我也心吹足了.


講到做特區戶照,D人多得好得人惊.我8:15AM 去到已經排第84個籌了, 排第37個個就6:30AM 到. 排第一,二個D仲更夸張--4:30AM 已到達排隊.做特區戶照的費用也好貴HK$470.00 (其中$100是的士費).


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因為中五模擬試開始, 所以我開始有較多空閒的時間


練波大計亦要進行


初部計劃--3月開始


1)  大陸訓練--1月1-2次


2)  會所訓練--1星期1次


3)  實戰訓練--逢星期五


成功進步與否, 未知之數; 但向邁向進步的方向, 卻是事在必行


 


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  • Mar 02 Tue 2010 13:32
  • 心情

近排心情非常一般,每天回到公司總係唔知點......(已沒有了以前開心的感覺)


特別你叫我做野時,我非常抗拒.........


雖然我知道這個現實生活中是沒有"公平" 這樣東西的.


但我的工作量不斷多,而人工已不說是正比,簡直不合理.....而別人少野做, 人工高.....


如果去同你理論, 好像不似我性格, 如果不去想,默默地做,我無論如何也過不了自己.


不過我自己也好清楚......如果去同你理論,就算你會加我人工,但大家的關係已改變了,況且工作量更多更多.............何苦呢!!!


既然是這樣,我就同自己講:我收多少人工就做多少的工作. 其餘不要理太多........


仲有最重要是每天都要在7:00pm 或之前走.


希望這樣自會做開心一些,心理平衡一些.



 


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轉眼間又到年尾了


在D個時候應節食品一定離不開蘿蔔糕 & 馬蹄糕.


大家看看以下的自家製作.


瑤柱腊味蘿蔔糕: 有瑤柱的鮮味,有腊腸的香,蘿蔔的甜味,絕無味精.一個字"正"



爽滑馬蹄糕 : 味道清甜,爽滑彈牙,老少咸宜,食完仲想再食.



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The pros and cons of constructing Express Rail Link  (XRL)


The protest of the Choi Yuen Villagers was recently a news headline.  Their request looks reasonable, since cultural herirage has been a major concern of the government.  However, if we see the issue from another perspective, a different concluison may be reached.


First of all, the wants of the Choi Yuen Villagers were absolutely understandable.  It's because the demolition of Choi Yuen Village means the loss of their residence.  The newly-built flat is surely beyond their affordable level.  Also, the villagers were worried whether they can adapt to a new live after moving out from Choi Yuen Village.  It's because a strong sense of belonging has been deep-rooted there. 


However, I personally think the movement launched by Choi Yuen Villagers do more harm than good.  It's true that Choi Yuen Village is important to the villagers.  It's also the job of the government to protect the best interest of the people, of course the Choi Yuen Villagers.  However, nowadays, urbanization is an irresistable trend and it's a means to upgrade the living standard of the people.  The advantage includes shortening the HK-China travelling time, releasing the pressure of Lo Wu and Wong Gong on holiday eve and also transforming it as a tourist site so as to bring more benefit to HK.


In addition, the provision of more job opportunity from demolishing Choi Yuen Village brings a big advantage.  The growing importance of tertiary industry in HK led to its rise as an international financial centre on one hand, an increase of jobless workers on another hand.  The building of XRL surely does a lot to ease the unemployment problem.  I think it's impossible to regard the rice-bowl of the workers less important than the sense of the belonging of the villagers.  Unquestionably, the live of the villagers is a problem after removing Choi Yuen Village.  I think it's just an issue of compensation.  It's surely negotiable.  The government has revealed a very sincere gesture to satisfy the villagers, by increasing the compensation for several times. 


Thus, if the villagers still insist on staying in Choi Yuen Village and hindering the construction of XRL, they would appear unreasonable and selfish.  They would even lose the sympathy of the public.  Finally, the Choi Yuen Villagers cannot win they pyrric victory.  They even suffer a total defeat.


So, I think the social activist may think twice before they give a hand to Choi Yuen Villagers.          


 


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原來你也很富有


今早看了已下一個很有意思的故事,希望和大家分享。

有一位青年老是埋怨自己時運不濟發不了財終日愁眉不展這一天走過來一個鬚髮皆白的老人「年輕人,為什麼不快樂

「我不明白為什麼我總是這麼窮
「窮你很富有嘛」老人由衷地說

「這從何說起」年輕人不解
老人反問道「假如現在斬掉你一個手指頭給你1千元你幹不幹
「不幹」年輕人回答
「假如砍掉你一隻手給你1萬元,你幹不幹?」
「不幹。」

「假如使你雙眼都瞎掉給你10萬元,你幹不幹?」
「不幹。」

「假如讓你馬上變成80 歲的老人,給你100 萬,你幹不幹?」
「不幹

「假如讓你馬上死掉給你1000 萬,你幹不幹?」
「不幹

「這就對了你已經擁有超過1000 萬的財富,為什麼還哀怨自己貧窮呢?」老人笑吟吟地問道。
青年愕然無言突然什麼都明白了


原來如果我們從來沒嘗試過失去的痛苦,是無法知道自己所擁有的是何等寶貴的。但到了我們真的失去了的時候,一切都來得太遲了!趁我們現在還擁有一切的時候,好好珍惜你的父母、兄弟姊妹、親友、健康

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援交定社交?  (出自am730--港男達人)


前排電視播咗個關於時下少女援交嘅時事節目,內容都幾令人欷歔,細佬唔想扮衞道之士,講埋啲「少女貪慕虛榮,香港道德敗壞」嘅廢話,因為而家社會嘅價值觀,係由成年人建立,而且仲係跟嗰班有錢人操控嘅遊戲規則,我哋無權用簡單二分法,一口咬定援交賣淫係賤人,而選美去飯局凑老細就係叻女。兩種女人做嘅嘢其實一模一樣,分別只係一個上網,一個去飯局;一個收cash,一個收層樓啫!


節目訪問咗個援交嘅女大學生,佢重複表示,自己好清楚做緊乜,又覺得無影響他人,唔明點解會俾人指斥敗壞社會風氣,佢反指啲明星藝人,一樣日夜响電視販賣性感肉體,影響更大,點解又無人出嚟指責,仲有咁多傳媒報道,為呢啲人吶喊助威?

呢位妹妹說話毫不激動,反而有種無奈同難以理解心結,我心有啲難過,難過唔係佢要出嚟援交,而係佢真係一矢中的,講中咗我哋香港社會嘅扭曲價值觀:有錢有面嘅富豪,用銀紙買幾多個女人返嚟同佢生仔,記者仲幫佢錦上添花,日夜追訪名太用咩嘢名牌手袋,都唔敢批評半句貪慕虛榮;無錢花費嘅援交少女,傳媒就搶佔道德高地,以反映社會現實為名,將佢哋嘅原罪,同名牌手袋掛鈎!記者欺善怕惡,定仇貧戀富,大家有目共睹,無謂畫公仔畫出腸!

當電視廣告販賣住豪宅,戴名錶,名人食家都坐擁名模美女嘆世界,少女用天生本錢幹原始買賣,又敗壞到多少道德?唔少年輕才俊、暴發大款何嘗唔係用錢作誘餌,物色女朋友?友人的律師樓,新小秘書一上工,立刻主動獻殷勤,認識各大老闆自我介紹,並且明示暗示,尚未有男朋友,友人已婚,坦白告知身分,小秘書不介意不特止,還主動獻身,樂得有位律師part time男朋友。

真人真事,比援交更奇情,女秘書可能不只有一個男朋友,每人送件名貴禮物,管接管送,遊埠吃喝玩樂,好過死捱八千蚊一份工!這種交易關係係援交嗎?當然唔係,因為大家唔係上網識;算唔算賣淫?梗唔算,個女仔又無收現金,鋪鋪清,送手袋之嘛,大富豪都係咁溝女啦!咁有無犯賤?唓!無人吼嗰陣先叫賤,正傻女!唔捉麻鷹捉雞仔!家陣敗壞風氣啲人,全部有名有姓,响八卦周刋度搵到晒!警察同傳媒,要搞,搞呢啲男男女女,唔好恰班援交妹妹仔!


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我十分同意上述文章, 援交咁大鑊, 如果一味blame d妹妹仔呢樣果樣, 而又唔諗點解佢地會搞成咁, 不單只幫唔到d妹妹仔, 只會令佢地覺得d人唔明佢地, 覺得自己同d大人活在不同世界, 於是d妹妹仔就大條道理我行我素


話到頭來, 成日只係識吵吵鬧鬧既大人, 邊個真係想幫d女?   同埋再講衰d, 想幫d女果幾個, 又有幾多個夠班幫d女?


所以, 有時見到一d寸過碼頭苦力既女, 我估大家都明, 更加唔會問點解會咁


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The events in the morning ran smoothly!  The Lai Chi Kok-Tin Shui Wai-Cheung Sha Wan Trip took me 4 hours.  Without taking a rest, Lung, Lam, Ceci and I went to Tin Shui Wai immediately.  The step taken here was called "returning" (回門).  I gave Ceci's mum a barbecued pig, eight apples and a red pocket.   All of us lunched at Lung Cheung Restaurant.  Indeed, it's not a tiring job, but I still felt pressured, since I have to go back to Lai Chi Kok by 4:00.  


The time is quite properly managed.  As I went back to the restaurant, it's just 4:15.  It's not very bad.  Once I saw Carol, she asked me to change the clothes.  However, I couldn't find my shirt!!  Did I leave it at home, or it's hidden somewhere in the case.  Finally, I decided to go home and have a quick search.  Luckily, I found my shirt.  I didn't know who hanged my shirt tidily against the white wall.  Anyhow, I had no interest to know why after I got the answer.  The only thing I wanted to do was to go back to the restaurant!! 


The suit was absolutely beautiful.  Many guest told me I looked like a price.  But I personally thought it's a Middle East style, just like the noble class in the oil-producing countries. 


From 6:00-8:00, it's the buiest time of the whole ceremony.  The guest came one by one, group by group, the queue of people coming in the hall looked endless.  I kept on taking photos with various guest.  Taking group photos was a difficult job.  It's becasue it's hard to wait until the whole group of people arrived.  It's so disappointing that I failed to take photos with all the guests, including some of my relatives.  Am I too interest-centered?  It's because I was quite sure I took photos with all my friends and colleagues.  I even remembered I took 2-3 rounds to have a photos with TKOGSS and HYKYL.  But I ignored some of my relatives.


Getting a message from Mr. Chung, I knew all the guest needed seating and I had to stand by at a hidden corner.  With the anchor of a waitress, I walked towards the stage slowly and of course, I kept shaking my hands.  The song, "Little cream", was fresh, cute and most importantly, suit my personal style.  Due to a lack of practising time, I just gave a very short speech and it's a little bit confusing!  Anyway, the stage performance of Oi Ming was professional and the overall atmosphere was not greatly affected.


Lucky Draw was the major function of the party.  Before the party, I think the children were troublesome and contributed nothing to the party.  However, once Oi Ming invited the children to the stage, their performance was really surprising!  The chat between Oi Ming and the children was a mixure of innocence and wisdom.  It's full of fun and happiness!


In the middle part of the party, we need to walk around and express my gratitude by drinking with the guests.  Those invited to join cheering with me were VIPs, including Kong Tsz Lung, DAI LUK MING, Fat, Banyan TT Teams and our family members.  The songs of Adam Cheng heightened the atmosphere.


Before the last session of the party, what suprised me was the group song sang by all brothers and sisters.  It's a song of Geroge Lam, "I need you all the time".  It's short, and the atmosphere didn't have a big difference, but I really felt touched.  I treasured this part very much.  It's not the same as I did  preparation before the party.  At that time, I always thought of the rundown and the views of the guests.  However, once I heard the song, I realized it's my party, the lyrics were not just words, it also made the hall filled with love, and the message of love giving to all the guests.


The song "Proud" marked the end of the party.  It's a beautiful full-stop of my tough preparation work for more than half month.  The smile of the guests gave me warmth, support and recognition!  What's more important, friendship was our strongest backup, which brought about a great success of the party.


Our Big Brothers--


Lung, Wong Ho, Sunnyfung1, Kei, Fong Wu, Cheung Koon Yu, Lee Cheuk Wa, 729



Our Big Sisters--


Candy, Connie, Fuk Wah, Lam, Ceci, Carol, Ling, Yee



The event was over, but the memory was long-lasting! 


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1017 was a memorable day.  It's a very busy day!!  On 1016, after I was off-duty, I got to Price Edward immediately.  Ceci and Carol had been busy in packing the suit and relevant items.  Their devotion was whole-hearted.  As we put the items in 729B, the house was unprecedently confusing!!  The living room was full of cases, and also joyfulness and excitment!  Perhaps, my body was so exhausted and I just have an empty mind.  Thanks Carol for giving me so many tips!


In theory, I needed to sleep early since I had to fight a tough battle on the following day.  However, my phone kept ringing, ringing and ringing, as if the God asked me to think more on the last night as a single.  Maybe, should I wait for my father?  So confused, but I had to clear my mind, since a lot of big events would come after a few hours.


The sky was still grey but the song of Joey Yung woke me up.  Unlike my previous practice, I didn't lay on my bed for 10 more minutes.  Rather, I got to toilet and had a quick bath.  Really, I was so refreshed and I went to "Red-Green-Light" to meet my Big Big Brothers.  Though not all of them arrived on time, their lateness was certainly acceptable.  Again, their help really touched me!


As we boarded on the coach, the speed was fast and I know a lot of big events are coming!  I kept talking with my Big Brothers about our stories in the past, just like a memoirs, flying to Tin Shui Wai and going to be merged with the stories of Loo!


As we did the preparation work nearby the car park, the team spirit of the Big Brothers was well-revealed.  I suddenly found the leadership of Lung, who had a great insight to point out the problems.  The co-operation of Fong Wu was unexpectedly good!  It's shown in the scene as we got to 205.  All brothers gave me a strong backup, and the process was very smooth!  As I watched the video in the restaurant at night, it's fun, and also warm.


[To be continue!] 


    


  


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以下是兩篇出自黃毅力的文章, 看罷, 你應明白什麼叫知易行難, 但, 本文始終有其參考價值, 看看在自己有限決心和能力之內可以做到多少


在這下著雨的早上,你會感到快樂嗎?如不,請看看我以下令自己快樂的23種方法,打頭陣的是「工作篇」:


1.) 提早準備。早點安排及計劃自己的工作,務求騰空出一些時間,讓自己能支配好時間,不至令自己「趕投趕命」,因時間問題而影響自己的情緒。


2.)自我鼓勵。每天梳洗過後,也要對著鏡子說:新的一天又開始了,真是值得開心,我承諾自己今天一定要活得很開心,不要把這天浪費。


3.) 改變衣著。閒時選擇穿一件你喜歡的衣服上班,這件衣服不能刻板,但要得體,也要有新鮮感,務求在低調的情況下,令周邊的人發現你今天有點與眾不同。


4.) 跳出習慣。每日上班時,跳出上班刻板的路程,嘗試乘搭不同的交通工具上班,或者可以嘗試早起一點,多點步行,一邊觀察及欣賞路上的景色,一邊自我思考。


5.) 每天微笑。嘗試用發自內心的微笑,與身邊任何一位迎面走過的陌生人,或不相往來的同事打個招呼,說聲早晨或您好,或許會出現特別的收獲。


6.) 投入工作。時時也要從刻板的工作中找到樂趣,但是不能成為工作的奴隸。喜歡的話,可以在工作上隨時為自己創造一些容易實現的目標及願望,例如今天要比平日早15分鐘完成所有工作,盡量令自己生活及工作有一點成功感及自信心。


7.) 保持健康。當我們能保持身體健康,自然有心有力,心情也會因此感到愉快。為了達到這一點,慣常的運動是有必要的,不能推說自己很忙,沒有時間,這都是藉口,例如上班時你可以早一點下車,然後步行回公司,並選擇行樓梯,這都是一種運動;午飯時在公司找個地方做Sit-up或掌上壓亦無不可。


8.)放過自己。對自己不要過分苛求,有時在一連串的工作過後,也要給自己一些躲懶的空間,但前題是要懂得平衡工作及心情。


9.)獎勵自己。出糧後送自己一份禮物,可以買一套自己負擔得起,而又喜歡的衣服,或者一朵鮮花、一部新手機,以此獎勵自己過去一個月的努力,但不要過度消費,要量力而為,否則又要面對賬單問題了。


10.)營造生活創意。閒時為自己的生活製造一些有趣的小插曲,營造一點創意及新鮮感。假如你真是感到不快,請深呼吸,並找一個可以讓你和平地發洩的好地方。


11.)充足睡眠。真正的「職場達人」,永遠都不需要靠鬧鐘來喚醒自己的靈魂,因為他們已習慣早睡早起。這個並不難達到,只要你懂得早睡,便自然會早醒,假如體力過分透支,或者晚上「劈酒」後才睡覺,必然會為你帶來頭痛及心煩這兩大問題,繼而便會令自己容易動怒,影響整天的心情。


以上的11點關於工作的快樂小方法,大家都可以在看完後立刻執行,而下一篇,我將會道出關於「生活」的那部分,下篇再續。


昨天刊登了關於「工作」的11個快樂偏方,大家可有得著?接著的就是「生活篇」:


12.)培養興趣。有時間的話,去學習一些新興趣或接觸一些新事物,但不能強迫自己培養一種習慣,否則這就不算得上是興趣了。


13.)樂與人同。把自己在生活中的瞬間靈感寫出來,將之放在社交網站或網誌上,與人分享,或者會有出人意表的事情發生。


14.)期望管理。別對身邊的朋友有過高的期望,少些期望,便會少些失望。


15.)保持社交。定期與三五知己相聚,互相「吹吹水」,可以一起喝一杯咖啡、泡一壺好茶,甚至來個Happy Hour,男士可以「啤一啤」,女士則可嘆一小杯雞尾酒。(但切忌酒後駕駛!)


16.)一起大笑。在假期開始之前,相約致友共渡健康或有益身心的假期,可以到戲院看一齣喜劇,一起傻笑一番,或者特意找一些無聊的說話及傻事,與周邊的朋友分享,也不失為一種令自己快樂的方法。


17.)定期旅遊。可以的話,要定期給自己假期及外遊的空間。你並不一定要出國,因香港也有許多大自然的美麗景色,繁華都市的另一端,就是風光如畫的景象,香港就是這麼有趣、可愛。


18.)保護心靈的盒子。永遠要忘記令你不快的事情,也永遠要寬恕令你不悅的人,因這個心靈的盒子只可以載著歡樂的回憶。所謂見微知著,當你懂得欣賞身邊所發生的一切,你這個心靈盒子也只會擁有快樂,因你已能在每人每事中發現他們存在的價值及意義。


19.)音樂冥想。每天抽一點寧靜的時間,聽一些溫馨的歌曲,並從回憶想想自己遇過最快樂的事情,並相信明天會比今天更加開心,這樣,就算在逆境,你也不會覺得難捱,因你凡事永遠只會從好處去想,並相信一切是上天最好的安排。


20.)關愛至親。不時要帶給身邊重視或關愛的人快樂,令他們感到你的愛、照顧及重視。例如每天發一個溫馨的短訊,或轉寄正能量的PowerPoint給他們,甚至也可將我的文章與他們分享。


21.)佈置家居。定期將家中的擺設重新安排,並打掃一下,這樣可以令自己一回到家中,就有耳目一新的感覺,不至死氣沉沉。


22.)給他/她驚喜。當你想到自己心愛的人時,不妨立刻給他/她一個驚喜,撥個電話,或發一個電郵/短訊,說一聲「我愛你」,製造窩心浪漫。


23.)享受逆境。所謂「山窮水盡疑無路,柳暗花明又一村」,不要將時間浪費在令你憂慮的東西之上,要相信明天會更好。我們要享受逆境,因智慧只會從逆境中生長出來,當你了解這一點,你就不會再感到苦惱。


這些就是我給大家的啟發,亦是我每天在繁忙背後,自娛及帶給別人快樂的一些小方法。當你看完這2篇關於工作及生活的23點快樂偏方,請立刻找5點去執行,相信你會得到一些意想不到的收獲!


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My experience as a Liberal Studies Teacher


The HK education system undergoes a big change this year.  It's much to do with the commencement of the 3-3-4 curriculum.  Whether the change is a burden or a challenge depends on the attitude and ability of the teachers.  Among all, the introduction of Liberal Studies in NSS may cause a big impact.


Starting from last year, I began to take a number of courses relating to LS.  As I was taking the course, I really found the course interesting, but just to the students, not to the teacher; just to the students, not to the candidate.  It's becasue it requires the students to grasp a dump of abstract concepts, applying to the current social issues.  Of course, it requires the preparation of the teachers and good social insight of the students.  It's really a noble cause, but whether it's practical is another issue.


Another issue worth discussing is the ability of the students.  Undoubtedly, LS aimed to train up the communication skill of the students, both verbally and orally.  In theory, it's worthwhile, since many students tend to be ingoing, who lack the skill and confidennce to speak up themselves.  Thus, there's no problem to pinpoint the weakness of the students to give them relevant training.  However, I personally wonder such a training would prevent the students from exerting their strength.  It's because obedience and hardwork are the strength of most HK students.  The training in LS would deprive students of the chance to use their memory to recall a lot of information.  On one hand, students would no long get a sense of satisfaction from using their rote memory.  On the other hand, forcing the students to use their own idea would not lead to a good learning outcome.  Needless to say, the course would bring a hard time to the teacher, sicne teachers need to give them a proper guideance and ensure them a good grade in exam.  What's more important, students would suffer frustration since the tasks given by teachers are usually beyond students' ability.


There's still a long way to learn how to teach LS.  But how long the LS would last is an uncertainty.    


 


 


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Today, I watched a movie clip from Youtube.  It's about the DBS students against the school policy.  It's hard to say whether their speech is appropriate.  What impressed me most is their courage to stand in front of the camera.


The move of the DBS boys is rare in HK.  Becasue of the the growth of IT, people prefer using their net-name to express their idea.  Since the real identity of the netizen couldn't be verified easily, it's hard for the authority concerned to take any action against their irresponsible remark.  Thus, many posts on many net forums are groundless and even barbaric.


The link of the movie clip is post below:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ps0lO_FKEMg&feature=related


Nowadays, there are a lot of problems in Hong Kong.  However, I wonder how many people would be as strong as the DBS boys to speak out against the poor policies of the govt.  


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各有特色













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強!!!!!!!!!!



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考完試又開始-----每個星期最少做三次健身啦.


今朝做完健身再返工, 人都精神D呀!!!


 


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我好耐都無寫Blog啦.


昨天唔知做咩野 好"黑仔".


開支葡萄適飲時,裡面D氣直升出來,把我個袋,電話,好多野都整濕了


仲要無啦啦把個外至hard disk format左,裡面D野全部無晒.


唉!!真係好嬲自己呀!!!點解會咁架........


Sorry呀........希望發哥仔可以搞番掂啦.


係咁惡劣的心情下,4:30pm仲要去考個"普通話水平測試"試,好極有限


好在有你陪我去考試, 我心情舒緩了.希望ok啦.


不過如果這次衰左, 當買個經驗, 下次再考過, 要一定掂.


 


 


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我返來了!!  哈哈


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